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Long time, no post...

Well, if there's anyone out there still reading this after nearly one month of BoYS silence...Hi. We're still alive. Everything is good.

If you're wondering why there hasn't been any posts from either DrummerWife or myself in the last several weeks, well, the answer is pretty simple: there haven't NEEDED to be any posts from DrummerWife or myself. We're doing well. Life's not perfect, but it's better. We're healing.

A big thank-you to everyone who's been there for us in thought, word, or deed in the last year+. I don't know if there will ever be another post here at Baby On Your Six, or if there will be an occasion that warrants another post. But thank you for being here with us since this whole ride started. :)

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Anonymous said…
I will alwsays be here for you guys!

Let's do dinner some time!

Hanna
11:51 AM
Josh Mc Alister said…
Thank you so much for documenting your journey. I'm sure it has helped you immensely, but know that it has helped me appreciate my children more as well. JM
4:06 PM
Anonymous said…
I enjoyed our evening together and thank you both for your hospitality. After our discussion, I went to bed knowing you are both well and thank God for your healing. There will still be bumps, but together you've proved to be survivors. Your marriage is a true testament to consummate love. Aaron's Mommy and Daddy are the best!

Love,
Mom Young
8:38 PM
Anonymous said…
I've been following your blog for about 6 months, went back and read from the beginning, and continue to check to see how you're doing. May you continue to be well, and here's wishes that every tomorrow brings good things to you. I believe Aaron is your sweet little angel, and will be watching out for you always.

Best wishes from a reader in NY...
8:39 PM
Anonymous said…
I've been following this blog for a little over a year now. My heart goes out to both of you.
8:54 PM
Stephanie823 said…
I'm still here and will continue to be...I think about the Young family more often than you know. :) I'm glad to hear you are healing - although I am sure that is a weird/scary thing...I'll continue to check this site always. Stephanie
9:08 PM
Anonymous said…
I'm glad that you are both beginning to heal. I think about you and your family alot. I really admire you.
God bless.

Bethy0077(from DWLZ)
12:18 AM
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