Skip to main content

Good News

Well, we met with the perinatologist. He gave us some very good news, comparatively speaking.

There will always be a risk of pre-eclampsia recurring in any pregnancy DrummerWife will ever have. But, the good news is that the risk is fairly limited - only 20%. Now, some of you may say that 20% is still very high. And you'd be right. It is high. But, that means that there's also an 80% chance that every pregnancy will be perfectly healthy and perfectly normal. I like that number much better.

Also - that 20% number also includes a percentage that should pre-eclampsia reoccur, it will do so less severe, and later in the pregnancy. Therefore, doctors will catch it, because they would monitor DrummerWife on a biweekly basis. They'll catch it, admit her to the hospital, put her on bed rest, and buy her, and the baby as much time as possible.

So, it's good news. We can safely try to have other children, which is absolutely joyous news for the two of us.

Now, we just have to get through the emotional issues of losing Aaron. And once that's done, we can get back to building the DrummerFamily. Someday. :)

Comments

Anonymous said…
That'a great news!!
I hope you had a relaxing holiday and counseling is going well.

God Bless,
Sara , Craig and Morgan
Anonymous said…
Wonderful news!!!! I had 3 successful prgnancies after losing my baby at 28 weeks. I have every confidence that the next pregnancy will be just fine.

Tiffany (merlyn4401 from Dotti's)
Anonymous said…
I'm so excited for the two of you. That news is superb! Hang in there. We're still praying for you.

Love, Sarah (your sister/in-law)
Anonymous said…
I am thinking of you both often.
Anonymous said…
I will share this news with your TNL family. I'm sure they will be very happy for you and rejoice in this positive news on your behalf.

Aym
Anonymous said…
God Bless you and your family. One of my good friends suffered the same loss and then went on to have three beautiful girls. NO, not at once, but success and blessings. Your pain will diminish with time and healing, your memory of this time will stay with you always...My family and I wish you all the best, and we are thankful that Jeff shared with us so that we can hold you in our thoughts and prayers. Give eachother lots of hugs and love. Anna, Larry and Olivia
Anonymous said…
Hey Guys,
That's great news! Very good idea on your part to meet with a perinatologist. Love to you both!
- Nurse Heather
Anonymous said…
Great news! I like that 80% number too :-)

Shanna

Popular posts from this blog

Aaron didn't make it.

About 3 hours ago, Aaron passed away. After speaking with his doctors earlier in the last few weeks, we decided that if at any point they were no longer supporting Aaron's life, but instead preventing him from dying, that we didn't want him to suffer any longer. We reached that point this morning. Aaron had been struggling for life from Day One, and after surgery, and several weeks of fighting, Aaron ran out of strength. He fought hard, but the strain of surgery just proved to be too much for him. I'm sure I'll feel up to posting more information later. I just don't seem to have any energy left in me for relating this at the moment. But I did feel it was important to share this information with all of you who have been keeping tabs on us. Thank you for your concern, your prayers, and your well-wishes during this difficult time. We love you. P.S.: I'd like to leave you with the following lyrics that popped into my head while we held Aaron as he passed away. They

Eighteen.

 18, Aaron. Holy shit, kid (calm down, you're 18 in about 5 hours, I can curse in front of you now, plus, I've had a couple drinks, my language is a bit loose). You're an adult. You're old enough to drive, you'd be looking at college or technical school, or backpacking across Europe in a gap year, or whatever weird thing kids are doing when they turn 18 these days. You'd be a person. A complete, fully realized, adult person. That's weird, kid, gotta admit. So, 18 is hitting your mom and I kinda hard. The idea of you at 18 is really blowing our minds. We were just barely not kids ourselves when you were born, and now we're talking about you as an adult. It's amazing to think about. As you well know, we've done a ton of work with, and fundraising for, the March of Dimes; donated money and goods to community health centers; donated craft goods to a local moms and babies' hospital for siblings of newborns; collected toys, pajamas, and games for l

Thank you all from the bottom of our hearts

We feel so loved and supported right now and would like to thank each and every one of you. Whether we know you or not we know we are in your thoughts. We told Aaron each and every day how loved he was and I know that he knew that. I know that all of you were praying for a different outcome in all of this, but obviously God had a different plan. There are moments when I am at peace with this and moments when I am not. As hard and upsetting as it was - I am not sure I will ever experience a more peaceful moment as I did when I sat there holding Aaron after they had all the tubes and wires off and before he actually passed. Yes, I did hold him the whole time - at first I didn't think I could but God gave me the strength and I am so happy that I did. Josh pointed out last night that the time they placed him in my arms was at 12:44 pm. Ironically, Aaron was born at 12:44 am - I don't think that was a coincidence. My brother-in-law pointed out to me that Aaron was in our lives for 3