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Happy Anniversary to Us!


Today is our 3rd Anniversary. 3 years ago I married the love of my life it was SUCH a wonderful day. I would have never believed that in 3 years we would have had the life experiences that we have had. We have lived in 3 places (each one getting progressively better than the next). Our first apartment was so charming...put it this way...if I ever think a house is charming again I am running the other way. Our second place we moved into because I was pregnant and there was no way we could have a baby in the "charming" first apartment. We moved into a condo to prepare for Aaron...only to welcome him into the world about 12 days later. We welcomed the most beautiful baby boy into the world and I watched as my husband instantly became a daddy when he heard Aaron's first cry. When I originally found out our due date (August 4th) we talked about how we would be spending out second wedding anniversary at home with the baby. While we did have a pretty low key day last year it wasn't quite as planned. Now here we are our 3rd year we have handeled everything that has come our way. People often say to us, "You two have been through more in your marriage then some go through in a lifetime". It's probably true, but one thing I know is that there is nobody else I would have wanted go through it with.

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Catherine said…
Happy Anniversary!
Anonymous said…
You are both an inspiration to many people who take life for granted and those who don't take their marriage seriously and feel it is something that can be ended because "life didn't go as planned". Your dad and I love you both very, very much.
Anonymous said…
I never saw your wedding pictures. How cute are the two of you!?!?

Love ya'!
cwm
Anonymous said…
Is it amazing how much your (our!) lives have changed in 3 years? I know how strong our relationship is through losing a child and I am sure yours is as well... I am glad you truly have found your other half in each other!

Happy Anniversary, I love that picture of the two of you.
Anonymous said…
I'm so glad God gave you each other to love. God bless you during the next year! Love you both.

Roxie
Stephanie823 said…
Happy Anniversary! I adore that picture - so beautiful!

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