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DrummerWife: ACTIVIST ON THE GO!

Today, DrummerWife and DrummerMother-in-Law are attending a golf tournament that is raising money for pre-eclampsia awareness and research. DrummerWife is also speaking at the event, about her experience. I can't tell you all how proud I am of my wife...she could absolutely sit back and let someone else do this, but that's never been what she's been about. She knows she has something that has directly affected her, us, and both of our lives, and she has the power to help.

Also, she's going to become quite involved with the March of Dimes walk starting with next year's event. We're trying to get a team together to raise money and walk, and I believe that DrummerWife will be assisting with the planning of the walk on a local level. She's amazing.

I'm sure Aaron is proud of his mommy, and will be smiling down on her today. =)

Comments

Anonymous said…
We're all proud of you Nikki. You will make a difference in so many lives.

Love you!
Anonymous said…
Your strength and faith are incredible. You are an amazing woman. I would love to help out in any way I can with the March of Dimes. I am here to raise $$ and walk. Love you! Bobbi
Stephanie823 said…
Good Luck today, Nikki! I know that your speech will be amazing and you will touch so many people with your story. Aaron is very proud of his Mommy and Daddy. :)
Anonymous said…
Go, Nikki, go!!

Love,
Shanna
Anonymous said…
Nikki's message to those in attendance today was very touching and amazing. She certainly brought an awareness for preeclampsia to everyone there. As you can imagine, mom was very proud!
Anonymous said…
Nikki,

I'm thankful to have such a wonderful person to look up to. I see your strength and it inspires me. I would love to walk and raise money for the March of Dimes. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

Love,
Sara

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