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Happy Mother's Day, DrummerWife

Well, I know it's not exactly how you foresaw your first official Mother's Day as a mom playing out, but hey - it counts. And you're little baby boy will soon know exactly how great of a mom you're going to be for him. Just you wait.

Also, I guess this is as good a time and place as any to say "Happy Mother's Day" to DrummerMom and DrummerMother-in-Law, as well. DrummerWife and I have been blessed to have the two of you not only throughout all of this, but throughout our lives, as well. Thank you.

(Also, Aaron wanted us to pass along the following message to you both - "Happy Mother's Day, Grandma." He's a thoughtful little fella, isn't he?)

As a special Mother's Day treat, I think DrummerWife is going to get to hold little Aaron again today. She's done it twice already, and she's getting to do it again. I was going to hold him for the first time, but I thought I'd just let DrummerWife enjoy her first Mother's Day by holding her baby. I'm a nice guy like that, I guess.

Happy Mother's Day, everyone. If you haven't called your mom yet, do it. Seriously. :)

Comments

Anonymous said…
Love all of you! Thanks for the nice mom day thoughts.

Grandma P
Anonymous said…
I love you both. God blessed me doubly. I'm proud to be called "Mom".
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